You don't have to live your life as a victim, even if you have been victimized. You can choose to start living as a survivor and be happy in spite of the horrible things you have gone through, be it things inflicted by others or by yourself. We have to choose to move forward and not live in our past even if others want to remind us of our pasts. The thing is they sometimes forget they have their own past and own stories of being a victim, be it of a abuse, violence, self inflicted via cutting, obesity, drugs, etc. We need to find the positive even in the negative in our lives in order to stop living as a victim. We need to let God of the anger, hurt and pain, yes it will try to rear it's ugly head in our thoughts and daily lives, but we need to control it not allow it to control us. Give yourself time to heal, yet do not stay in that time of anger, hurt and pain... Use what you went through to help others to know that they too can be survivors of their past and present in many cases. Becoming a survivor is a choice that will make such a difference in your life, so that you can be happy in spite of the bad that has and/or is happening. If you are in an abusive situation please make plans to get out as fast and safely as you can. Make the choice to have a better life for you and your children if you have any. Become victorious by becoming a survivor and not continuing to live as a victim... Know and believe that you deserve better including if you are self inflicting yourself with abuse of any kind. Choose to get help and to live without that as a part of your life.
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