"Your Choices of Anger; Don't Let It Control You, Instead You Must Control It"

Anger is something that we must all deal with. The way we deal with it is what makes or breaks us and others.If we allow our anger to take over as abusers do, then we are as they are and we risk hurting someone be it physical, mental, emotional etc.We can be angry and yet not hurt others or we can let our anger consume us to the breaking point and that is what an abuser does. They feel it festering up,  yet rather than dealing with it they let it deal with them and it is then it turns to hurting themselves or others. It's okay to get angry at injustices and other things but we have to be careful not to allow it to turn to abuse. Prayer is the most effective tool against anger and next is to get to the root of your anger and to stop the anger so you can to see why you are so angry whether you are the abuser or the abused. Many times abused men and /or women end up angry inside and find it hard to deal with the angry, but deal with it we must so that it doesn't deal with us.. It can be a vicious cycle, the angry abuser hurts the abused one and then the abused one becomes angry at the abuser and themselves. It is a cycle however that God can end if we allow Him too. we have to be ready to let go of the abuser and the anger we have. Most stay with an abuser because they feel they can love them enough for them to change, but we can't. I do believe God can change an abuser and heal the abused if they will allow Him too, however do be careful that abuser ha truly been delivered and not only acting as if he/she has changed. Let go of your anger and let go of your abuser.