Just
because you were made a victim by someone else or even yourself (self
abuse to include but not limited to via cutting, obesity, etc) doesn't mean you have to stay one,
instead become a survivor... You can live as survivor and change your
own life...We can choose to live in the victim mentality or we can choose to live in the survivor mentality, you may ask how can you do that with what you've been through. You can do it by choosing to forgive the abuser whether it was someone else or yourself via self abuse as stated above. You may not be able to forget what happened, but forgiving will help you heal and it will help concerning the the anger you may be holding onto due to the abuse. We can't change the fact that we were abused, but we can change how we deal with what we went through. Don't let it consume you, nor bring you down to the point of not being able to function, nor to the point of giving up. You are stronger than you even know, you're here, you're alive and you're a survivor just like me... So Live As A Survivor And Change Your Own Life...
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